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Happy happy birthday!! I adore your list. This one screamed at me: “I cut a chord quickly when given the silent treatment.” That is TRULY such an accomplishment! I too learned this year that the silent treatment is not something I’ll ever inflict, nor is it something I’ll tolerate. One of the most toxic symptoms that exists in the world of relationships.

I hope today is wonderful. That you’re feeling the love. Because you sure do cultivate it and show up for it. 💜

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Definitely not crying at this list! Happy birthday Mar, may this next trip around the sun be the most blessed and magical yet

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Happy happy birthday!!!

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Happy birthday, you magnificent earth angel! Reading your list makes me want to write my own. Thank you for sharing yourself with the world. You've been such an inspiration to me over many years and it's been a pleasure to watch all your many shifts, transitions, and creations. Seeing you be unabashedly you, makes me feel confident I can embrace myself fully too. <3

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yes highly recommend writing your own list! was helpful to do :)

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Happy birthday Mar! I started reading Monday Monday (then your books) in February, and your work pulled me out of a spiral of overworking, stale sobriety, and staying stuck in self pity. I’m so glad you exist, your work is a gift 💕

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no more stale sobriety! I love it

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HBD looking hot in yr real tree

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tysm ;)

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Happy birthday!

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Trash night is the fucking worst. Earned Secure Attachment is worth celebrating!!! Dogs are everything. Happy birthday!!

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<3

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So happy to celebrate your life, so glad you’re alive! I am perpetually inspired by your expression in the world 💛

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Happy birthday fellow Gemini! A treat that you shared it with us, to read your list, and to be inspired to write my own 💐 thank you!

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Happy birthday you luminous beauty! So grateful that you blessed the world with your presence during my lifetime so I can share in the gifts you bring. Can’t wait for June 18th and the magic that will surely unfold as we walk the Way once again (semi religious undertones there that I don’t really like but hey, if I had to choose a religion I wouldn’t mind JC as my leader 😂) Sending you birthday blessings across the ocean 💛💛💛

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Happy birthday! I’ll join you at 35 in 8 days myself. NA cheers to your contentment and joy 🩵🩵

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Happy birthday!

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thank you Sara!

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Happy 35th sun-circling; may the next bring more where more is wanted and less where less is wanted, thanks for all you share ✨

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less where less is wanted! thank you Lisa <3

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Happy birthday Mar! Thank you for all that you do, you have helped me immensely as I transition out of full time work in a corporate environment to freelancing as an artist and editor! X

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happy birthday! 🐋

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